Hopefully you have come to a realization that you have also wronged someone. I have found that regarding myself. I want grace for the
things that I have done... regarding things that someone has wronged me: I want justice.
Maybe you think that you have no wrongs,
but If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.
If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
If we say we have not sinned, we make Him (that is God) a liar, and his word is not in us. 1 John 1:8-10